“In response to Coffee Challenge: Why I want to be a better me in 2022” — If at this time of the year, you are looking at your resolutions, life and experiences and thinking about how it didn’t go as you wished, don’t beat yourself up because here are a practices, mindset and beliefs that helped me in 2021 and they might help you reflect or…

Who Needs Bios, I Can Make This About Me Post As Long As I Want! — I wrote earlier about most social media bios being too limiting to describe what you do and your accomplishments but with this About Me post, I can write a bio as long as I want. Thank you About Me I really can’t remember the first time I started writing, I…

Relationships and expectations are bound together. For every form of relationship comes the accompanying expectations of duties, responsibilities, and actions. To separate expectations from relationships is to do away with the essence of relationships altogether. I often hear advice from people not to have any expectations of people because they…

It took me 10 years, here’s how you can figure it out in 10 days — For many years, I struggled with clarity. I knew I wanted to own a business, but I wasn’t sure what the business was going to be. I knew I wanted to have a personal brand and say something online but it took a long time to figure out what exactly…

And why it is a key to your success — Growing up, you were guided by your parents or guardians. They decided everything for you, mostly. They decided what you ate, what time you ate, when you went to bed, which school you attended, and even sometimes what you should do for the rest of your life. Undoubtedly, all of…

You really get to know yourself — If you are in your 20s and you are single, maybe you’ll be single for much longer than you think. I am not trying to curse you because honestly you will find happiness. Many women dread the age of 30. Where did it come from that you had to have…

NO! These two letter words have been pivotal in my journey in the past year because I have said them a lot. When I watched Shonda Rhimes’ Ted Talk years ago about her year of saying Yes to everything, it wasn’t a new concept. I don’t know where I picked…

What if you had a friend for each need? You have a friend for every need friendships serve in your life and you don’t have to expect everything from one person. My journey with friendships has got me thinking a lot. It is no longer news that I don’t have…

You can create content and still keep your privacy — If you live in the modern world, introversion can seem like a curse. All conventional advice is always about how you need to be more out there. People don’t notice you at meetings because you are not the loudest voice in the room. People don’t give you opportunities because they…