“In response to Coffee Challenge: Why I want to be a better me in 2022” — If at this time of the year, you are looking at your resolutions, life and experiences and thinking about how it didn’t go as you wished, don’t beat yourself up because here are a practices, mindset and beliefs that helped me in 2021 and they might help you reflect or…

Who Needs Bios, I Can Make This About Me Post As Long As I Want! — I wrote earlier about most social media bios being too limiting to describe what you do and your accomplishments but with this About Me post, I can write a bio as long as I want. Thank you About Me I really can’t remember the first time I started writing, I…

The hack to breaking free from toxic bosses and a toxic work environment — The Sitcom ‘Everybody Hates Chris’ is one of my favorite shows to watch after a long day. What never ceases to surprise me however is the unending bullying that Chris was exposed to from Caruso. He tried to fight back once but he lost the fight and ever since, he…

It is worse than a romantic relationship break up, but… — I had been mourning this for a long time. I became dazed! My belly was turning over, suddenly I needed a place to sit at the new cemetery. The tombs and headstones of most of the grave sites were new. Earlier when we arrived, I wonder why people spend so…

I am not a teddy bear, I am human, I can talk — I don’t remember much about my childhood or having half the audacity that my three-year-old niece has so I am always in awe of her intellect and understanding of the world around her. As an adult myself, who sometimes struggles to remember who she is, the world at different times…

For beings like me who ponder — You have probably heard before that you are inherently valuable by virtue of being human. Never attach your identity and value to y our career, money, etc. they say. What does it mean to be valuable simply by virtue of being human you might ask? It is almost impossible to…

Ideas might be a dime a dozen but… — You have an idea worth a million dollars. When I finished University, I had the idea to start a franchise for Fura. It was a popular drink in the north where I schooled but not so much in the South where I live. At the time, I wrote it down…

If You Lean Into These… — Many have spoken about the scam that being an adult is. We thought it was all about being free to do whatever the fuck you wanted without any consequences because, after all, no one can beat you. But the things that beat have far-reaching consequences than the stroke of an…

Read this and breathe easy. — One of the things we forget to be grateful for is that we gain a better understanding of our lives and experiences as the years go by. We can now name them as vocabulary improves to explain the formerly lesser-understood phenomenon. One of those is a funk. In the past…